Melbourne’s Accredited Family Law Specialists and Mediation Experts

Specialist Family Law Advice. Strategic Resolution. Personal Support.

At Mathews Family Law & Mediation Specialists, we are dedicated exclusively to family law and dispute resolution.

Our Accredited Family Law Specialists assist individuals and families throughout Melbourne, Victoria, Australia and overseas with complex and sensitive family law matters, including separation, divorce, parenting disputes, property settlements, financial agreements and mediation.

Our unique strength is the combination of specialist family law expertise with advanced mediation and dispute resolution skills.

Unlike many family law firms, our Family Dispute Resolution Practitioners (FDRPs) and mediators are also experienced family law specialists. This means our mediations are informed by a detailed understanding of family law principles, negotiation strategy and the practical realities facing families after separation.

A Different Approach to Family Law

Family law disputes do not always need to be resolved through Court proceedings.

At Mathews Family Law & Mediation Specialists, we are committed to helping clients resolve matters efficiently, respectfully and cost-effectively wherever possible.

Our dispute resolution services include:

• Negotiation
• Lawyer-assisted settlement discussions
• Family Dispute Resolution (FDR)
• Mediation
• Collaborative approaches
• Arbitration
• Court representation where required

Our focus is always on finding practical solutions while protecting our clients’ legal rights and long-term interests.

Experienced in Complex Family Law Matters

Our Accredited Family Law Specialists provide advice and representation across all areas of family law, including:

• Divorce and separation
• Parenting arrangements and complex parenting disputes
• International relocation matters
• Property settlements
• Complex financial matters involving businesses, trusts and superannuation
• Binding Financial Agreements
• Family Dispute Resolution and mediation

Every family law matter is unique. We combine technical legal expertise with a genuine understanding of the emotional and financial challenges that arise when relationships break down.

Vanessa Mathews – Accredited Family Law Specialist, FDRP and Mediator

Principal Vanessa Mathews is an Accredited Family Law Specialist, Family Dispute Resolution Practitioner and Mediator.

Vanessa was one of the early Accredited Family Law Specialists to also become accredited as a Family Dispute Resolution Practitioner and Mediator, reflecting her longstanding commitment to helping families resolve disputes constructively.

Her multidisciplinary background provides a unique perspective when assisting clients with complex family law matters. Vanessa holds:

• A Bachelor of Laws
• A Bachelor of Commerce from the University of Melbourne
• A Bachelor of Social Work from the University of Melbourne

This combination of legal, commercial and social work expertise enables Vanessa to understand both the legal complexities and the human impact of family breakdown.

Vanessa and the MFL team regularly contribute to the broader professional community through education and training for:

• Accountants
• Financial advisers
• Mental health professionals
• Allied health organisations
• Community organisations

Through seminars, professional development presentations and community initiatives, Mathews Family Law continues to promote better understanding of family law and dispute resolution.

Boutique Service. Specialist Expertise.

Mathews Family Law combines the personal service of a boutique law firm with the specialist expertise expected from a leading family law practice.

Our clients benefit from:

✔ Direct access to experienced family law specialists
✔ Tailored legal strategies
✔ Strong negotiation and mediation expertise
✔ Clear communication and practical advice
✔ Flexible service options
✔ A commitment to resolving matters efficiently wherever possible

Why Clients Choose Mathews Family Law

Clients choose Mathews Family Law because they want more than legal advice—they want experienced guidance during one of the most challenging periods of their lives.

We provide:

✔ Specialist family law expertise
✔ A resolution-focused approach
✔ Mediation and dispute resolution experience
✔ Personalised strategies for each client’s circumstances
✔ Transparent communication
✔ Flexible options including unbundled and full-service representation

Innovation and Accessible Family Law Services

Mathews Family Law has long embraced technology to improve access to specialist legal advice.

We have developed innovative systems designed to make family law services more accessible, efficient and affordable for clients throughout Australia and overseas.

Our services include:

• Online client information forms
• Digital consultations
• Video conferencing for meetings, mediation and Family Dispute Resolution
• Online payment facilities
• Interactive legal resources and calculators

We also provide a comprehensive library of free educational resources, including:

• Family law articles
• Podcasts
• Webinars
• Videos
• Downloadable guides
• Professional presentations

Our aim is to help people understand their legal options and make informed decisions about their future.

Professional Accreditation and Memberships

Mathews Family Law & Mediation Specialists maintains professional accreditation and membership with leading legal and dispute resolution organisations, including:

• Law Institute of Victoria
• Law Institute of Victoria Family Law Section
• Law Council of Australia Family Law Section
• International Academy of Family Lawyers
• Attorney-General’s Department accredited Family Dispute Resolution Practitioners
• National Mediation Accreditation System
• Australian Institute of Family Law Arbitrators and Mediators
• Resolution Institute
• Victorian Association for Dispute Resolution
• Relationships Australia Access Resolve Mediation Program
• Relationships Australia Family Lawyers Panel

These professional affiliations demonstrate our commitment to excellence, ongoing professional development and the highest standards of family law practice.

Community Commitment and Access to Justice

At Mathews Family Law, we believe access to quality legal information and advice should be available to everyone.

Our commitment to corporate social responsibility is demonstrated through practical initiatives, including:

• Providing free legal information resources
• Offering educational videos and articles
• Publishing family law guides and calculators
• Providing complimentary initial telephone consultations
• Offering fixed-fee services where appropriate
• Providing flexible options including unbundled legal services

Vanessa Mathews’ social work background has contributed to the firm’s strong commitment to supporting the community and improving access to justice.

Award-Winning Melbourne Family Lawyers

Mathews Family Law has been recognised for excellence in family law and mediation.

Recognition includes:

• Winner – Boutique Family Law Firm of the Year, Australia – Global Law Experts
• Winner – Family Law Mediator of the Year, Australia – Global Law Experts
• Finalist – Law Institute of Victoria Boutique Law Firm of the Year
• Recommended Family Law Firm – Doyle’s Guide
• Recommended Family Law Mediator – Doyle’s Guide
• Leading Parenting Lawyer – Doyle’s Guide
• Recognition by ThreeBestRated

These achievements reflect our commitment to specialist expertise, innovative dispute resolution and outstanding client service.

Speak with an Accredited Family Law Specialist

If you require advice about separation, divorce, parenting arrangements, property settlement or mediation, the team at Mathews Family Law & Mediation Specialists is here to help.

Contact us today to arrange your complimentary initial telephone consultation with an Accredited Family Law Specialist.

We will listen to your circumstances, explain your options and help you move forward with confidence.

Frequently Asked Questions About Accredited Family Law Specialists, Mediation and Family Law

What is an Accredited Family Law Specialist?
An Accredited Family Law Specialist is a lawyer who has demonstrated advanced knowledge, skills and experience in the specialised area of family law.
Accreditation is awarded by the relevant state or territory legal professional body after the lawyer has met rigorous requirements, including demonstrating substantial experience in family law, completing specialist assessment processes and maintaining ongoing professional development.
Choosing an Accredited Family Law Specialist provides reassurance that your lawyer has a high level of expertise in areas such as:
Divorce and separation
Property settlements
Parenting disputes
Financial agreements
Family law negotiations
Family dispute resolution
Court proceedings
Family law is complex and constantly evolving. An Accredited Family Law Specialist can provide specialist advice to help you understand your legal rights, obligations and options.
At Mathews Family Law & Mediation Specialists, our Accredited Family Law Specialists focus exclusively on family law and dispute resolution.

Why choose a family law mediator who is also a lawyer?
A mediator who is also an experienced family lawyer brings a deeper understanding of the legal issues that may affect your agreement.
Family law mediation is not simply about finding a compromise. A successful mediation requires an understanding of:
Your legal rights and obligations
The factors that influence a fair outcome
The practical consequences of different settlement options
How agreements can be documented and formalised
At Mathews Family Law & Mediation Specialists, our mediators are also experienced family law professionals. This combination of legal expertise and dispute resolution skills enables us to help families explore practical solutions while ensuring they understand the legal implications of their decisions.

Can family law disputes be resolved without going to Court?
Yes. Many family law disputes can be resolved without Court proceedings.
The Australian family law system encourages separating couples to attempt to resolve disputes through negotiation and dispute resolution wherever appropriate.
Options may include:
Direct negotiation between parties
Lawyer-assisted negotiation
Family Dispute Resolution (FDR)
Mediation
Collaborative law
Arbitration

Resolving matters outside Court can often reduce:
Legal costs
Delay
Conflict
Emotional stress and uncertainty

However, every situation is different. Some matters require Court involvement, particularly where there are significant disagreements, safety concerns, complex financial issues or an inability to reach agreement.
An Accredited Family Law Specialist can help you understand the most appropriate pathway for your circumstances.

What is the difference between mediation and Family Dispute Resolution?
Mediation and Family Dispute Resolution (FDR) are both processes designed to help people resolve disputes without going to Court.
Family Dispute Resolution (FDR) is a specific dispute resolution process recognised under the Family Law Act 1975 and is commonly used for parenting disputes. In many cases, parents must attempt FDR before applying to the Court for parenting orders.
Mediation is a broader dispute resolution process where an independent mediator assists parties to communicate, identify issues and explore possible agreements.
Both processes aim to:
Encourage constructive discussions
Reduce conflict
Help parties reach their own agreements
Avoid unnecessary litigation where possible
At Mathews Family Law & Mediation Specialists, our Family Dispute Resolution Practitioners and mediators have specialist family law experience, allowing us to assist clients with complex parenting, property and financial disputes.

Do I need a family lawyer for a property settlement?
While it is possible to negotiate a property settlement without a lawyer, obtaining specialist legal advice is strongly recommended.
A property settlement involves more than simply dividing assets. Important considerations may include:
The value of assets and liabilities
Superannuation interests
Businesses and trusts
Contributions made during the relationship
Future financial circumstances
Tax implications
How the agreement should be legally formalised
An informal agreement between separated partners may not provide finality and may leave the possibility of future claims.
An Accredited Family Law Specialist can help you understand your entitlements, negotiate effectively and ensure your agreement is properly documented.
At Mathews Family Law & Mediation Specialists, we assist clients with property settlements ranging from straightforward matters to complex financial cases involving significant assets.

How can an Accredited Family Law Specialist help with divorce?
A divorce is the legal process that formally ends a marriage. In Australia, divorce is separate from other family law issues such as property settlement, parenting arrangements and financial matters.
An Accredited Family Law Specialist can assist you by:
Explaining the divorce process
Advising whether you meet the requirements for divorce
Preparing and filing divorce applications
Advising about separation requirements
Addressing issues involving children
Explaining how divorce interacts with property settlement time limits
Although divorce is often an administrative process, separation frequently involves complex legal and financial decisions. Obtaining early specialist advice can help protect your future interests.
At Mathews Family Law & Mediation Specialists, we provide clear advice and practical support to guide clients through separation and divorce. We also offer an fixed-fee online divorce service – divorce-online.com.au

How early should I seek family law advice after separation?
It is usually beneficial to obtain legal advice early, even if you and your former partner are communicating well.
Early advice can help you:
Understand your legal rights and responsibilities
Avoid costly mistakes
Identify opportunities for early resolution
Protect your financial position
Make informed decisions about parenting arrangements
Seeking advice does not mean you are committing to Court proceedings. Often, early specialist advice helps parties resolve matters more efficiently and with less conflict.

Do I have to go to Court to get a family law outcome?
No. Court is only one pathway for resolving family law matters.
Many clients achieve successful outcomes through negotiation, mediation or other dispute resolution processes.
At Mathews Family Law & Mediation Specialists, our approach is resolution-focused. We explore practical alternatives to litigation wherever appropriate while ensuring our clients’ legal rights and interests are protected.
Where Court proceedings are necessary, our experienced family lawyers provide strategic representation.

How can Mathews Family Law & Mediation Specialists help?
Mathews Family Law & Mediation Specialists provides specialist advice and dispute resolution services across all areas of family law, including:
Divorce
Property settlements
Parenting disputes
Family Dispute Resolution
Mediation
Financial agreements
Complex family law matters

Our Accredited Family Law Specialists combine legal expertise, negotiation skills and a commitment to helping clients achieve practical outcomes.
Contact Mathews Family Law & Mediation Specialists to arrange your complimentary initial telephone consultation with an Accredited Family Law Specialist.

About Vanessa Mathews — Accredited Family Law Specialist

Vanessa Mathews
Principal | Accredited Family Law Specialist | Accredited Family Dispute Resolution Practitioner | Mediator

This page was prepared and reviewed by Vanessa Mathews, Principal of Mathews Family Law & Mediation Specialists. Vanessa practises exclusively in family law and assists clients throughout Australia with separation, divorce, parenting disputes, property settlements, financial agreements and other complex family law matters.

Helping families resolve conflict through specialist legal expertise and constructive dispute resolution.

Last reviewed: 24 July 2026

Disclaimer: This page provides general information only and does not constitute legal advice. Every family law matter is different and you should obtain advice tailored to your circumstances.

About Vanessa Mathews — Accredited Family Law Specialist

Vanessa Mathews
Principal | Accredited Family Law Specialist | Accredited Family Dispute Resolution Practitioner | Mediator

This page was prepared and reviewed by Vanessa Mathews, Principal of Mathews Family Law & Mediation Specialists. Vanessa practises exclusively in family law and assists clients throughout Australia with separation, divorce, parenting disputes, property settlements, financial agreements and other complex family law matters.

Helping families resolve conflict through specialist legal expertise and constructive dispute resolution.

Last reviewed: 24 July 2026

Disclaimer: This page provides general information only and does not constitute legal advice. Every family law matter is different and you should obtain advice tailored to your circumstances.

Generally speaking, inheritances are not excluded or otherwise quarantined from the asset pool to be divided between separating parties, and will not automatically be allocated back to the party who received them.

Some of the relevant factors the Court takes into account are as follows:

Timing and length of a relationship

For example, an inheritance received very early in a long relationship might not result in a significantly higher contributions assessment to the party who received it, because the other party might have made other contributions over the years which offset the effect of the inheritance.

An inheritance received late in the relationship or after separation in a short relationship, is more likely to result in a higher contribution assessment to the party who received it.

Amount received

The amount received – and compared with the asset pool to divide – will affect the Court’s ultimate decision.

For example, a smaller amount (say $20,000 inheritance in a pool of $1.5m) is less likely to result in contributions being assessed in favor of the party who received it than a larger amount (say $1m in a pool of $1.5m).

How it was applied

If the money was used for family holidays or otherwise spent and is no longer represented in the asset pool, it will carry less weight when assessing contributions than if it was used to purchase real estate or shares and those assets still exist at the time the Court is making a determination. It may also be relevant if the funds have been kept separate and not otherwise mingled with the parties’ assets.

Financial circumstances of the parties at the time the Court makes a decision

In a pool of $1m, where one party receives a post-separation inheritance of $500,000, it might not be just and equitable for one party to receive half of the net assets ($500,000) and the other to receive the other half plus the whole inheritance ($500,000 plus $500,000). The Court will consider the whole financial situation.

Inheritances received after separation

If one party receives an inheritance after separation but before property settlement has been agreed and formalized, the inheritance will be taken into account in the property settlement as the Court must consider all of the current financial circumstances at the time the determination is being made.

This is one of the reasons why it is recommended that separating parties finalize and formalize their property settlement as soon as possible.

This does not necessarily mean that the other party will receive a portion of the inheritance. The Court might determine that the other party made no contribution to the inheritance, but it will be taken into account and adjustments might be made in favor of the other party who does not receive the inheritance.

Future inheritances

A future inheritance will usually only be taken into account if the death of the testator is imminent.

As the inheritance has not yet been received, the Court could not include it in the asset pool but can take it into account in assessing the respective future needs of the parties.

How can an inheritance be protected against claims by the other party?

Parties to a marriage or de facto relationship can protect future inheritances by entering into a Binding Financial Agreement which sets out how any inheritance would be dealt with in the event of separation.

If parties have separated and there is a possibility that one party will receive an inheritance in the future, it is recommended that they finalize their property settlement as soon as possible, and before the death of the testator.

Specialist Family Law advice regarding family law property is essential. Let your client know about our free initial telephone consultation service by calling Vanessa Mathews on 9804 7991 to book an appointment with one of our specialist solicitors.

We’re operating as usual at Mathews Family Law. If you have any questions or concerns about how COVID-19 may impact your client’s position in relation to their family law matter, call Vanessa Mathews on 9804 7991 or email [email protected].

The laws relating to property settlement at the end of a de facto relationship have recently changed. For relationships that have broken down since 1 March 2009, the Family Court now deals with all of the legal aspects of the separation, including any:

Child Support Agreement,

Parenting Plan or

Parenting Order.

Child Support

Child Support can be sought via the Child Support Agency or a Child Support Agreement.

Parenting Orders. may be sought in the Local Court, the Federal Circuit Court or the Family Court. The principles that apply to the children of marriages also apply to the children of de facto relationships.

An application may be made to the Court to either change the conditions of or remove the Apprehended Violence Order. This application may be made by the protected person, the defendant, a police officer or a person acting on behalf of the protected person.

It is a criminal offense to knowingly breach an interim or final Apprehended Violence Order. The maximum penalty on conviction is a $5,500 fine or two years imprisonment or both. Where the breach itself is an act of violence and the defendant is at least 18 years of age, the defendant will likely be sentenced to a gaol term.    

The Family Law Act provides for binding financial agreements to be made between parties to a marriage, a de facto relationship, or a same-sex couple. These agreements can be made before, during or after the end of the marriage or relationship. Parties entering into a relationship agree on what will happen in the event that they separate. Parties entering into a second relationship or with substantial assets often like the protection of a financial agreement.

Reconciliation and resumption of cohabitation can have a monumental effect on your divorce proceedings. A reconciliation will affect your date of separation, which in turn can affect property division and other aspects of your case. The impact of reconciliation combined with the attitude that the courts generally prefer parties to reconcile has resulted in some special rules with regard to reconciliation and resumption of cohabitation.

First, with regard to reconciliation, if the court determines that based on the evidence or attitude of the parties, a reasonable possibility of reconciliation exists, the court has the power to suspend the proceedings. This adjournment is designed to allow the parties the time and opportunity to consider reconciliation. However, if either party wishes to resume court proceedings, the court is compelled to grant this request.

Moving back in together, more specifically, resumption of cohabitation can also have a huge impact on your divorce proceedings. If your resume cohabiting, and then later agree to separate again, the period of time you had previously been separated may not apply when trying to meet the twelve-month separation requirement for divorce.

Now you may be wondering – what exactly equates to a resumption of cohabitation? The answer is that both parties must intend to resume cohabiting, act on that intention, and also be living on substantially the same terms as they were prior to the separation. An agreement to move back in together that never comes to fruition does not meet this standard. Also, simply moving in under the same roof but not resuming other aspects of the marital relationship will not equate to a resumption of cohabitation.

If you are considering moving back in with your ex, you should be aware of the special rules regarding the resumption of cohabitation. As we mentioned earlier, the court has a preference for parties to make amends, and they would prefer parties at least attempt reconciliation if there is a chance it might work rather than be too afraid to try because of the impact that reconciliation can have on the divorce proceedings. For this very reason, the court allows parties to move back in together for one period of time up to three months without there being any prejudice to their application for the divorce process in Australia.

Practically speaking, if you resume cohabiting and then separate again within three months, you may use the period of time you were previously separated in calculating the twelve-month requirement. On the other hand, if your resumption of cohabitation lasts for three months or longer, you will have to separate for a further twelve months before you can file for divorce.

The courts in Australia are the last resort for settling a property dispute between spouses.  Even if you and your spouse can’t come to an agreement, you need to show the court that you’ve tried to reach an agreement through some type of alternative dispute resolution.  This is called a “pre-action procedure”.

Pre-action procedures are also aimed at determining which disputes can be settled out of court and which really require the court’s intervention.  While you might not be able to come to an agreement about everything, you might agree on some issues (who gets the house) and only have to bring a small number of disputes to the court (how is the debt divided).

There are several steps to the pre-action procedure:

1. Inviting the other side to participate in dispute resolution, such as family counseling, mediation or arbitration.
2. Agreeing on a type of dispute resolution service.
3. Attending the dispute resolution and making a genuine effort to resolve the problem.
4. Give written notice to the other side if no agreement can be reached (or the other side refuses to attend the meeting) of your intention to file with the court.
5. Replying to the written notice if you are on the receiving end.

Consult with an experienced Family lawyer about the rules and requirements in pre-action procedures to ensure that you meet all of your obligations.