How to Choose a Divorce Lawyer in Australia

Choosing a divorce lawyer in Australia should be like making any other big Should be divorce process like when you buy a house or choose a school for your children. Educate yourself, ask around, ask questions, and research on the internet.

Learn about the divorce laws first. This is important for two reasons. One, it will give you an idea of what’s involved, which in turn gives you a better sense of control. The second reason is that it means you’re better informed, so when you start looking for a lawyer, you’ll better understand what he or she is talking about.

Do your research. 

Ask friends and family, call your local law society, ask others who have been through a divorce, and search the internet. Build up a list of names, including lawyers people recommended not to use.

Figure out what kind of lawyer you need. 

Ask yourself what kind of person you want to work with. Are you looking for an aggressive fighter who will get you everything you want and win the battle or do you want someone who can get results with a more gentle approach? Do you need someone who will explain everything to you each step of the way or do you prefer to let go and leave the whole burden to the lawyer?

Narrow down your list.

Do some background checking on the names you received. Look them up on the internet. If he or she wrote any articles or papers, read them. This will give you a sense of who this person is and their knowledge of the field. Ask other people who used the lawyer. A few bad recommendations should tell you not to hire this person.

Choose a family lawyer.

Family law is a very specialized area. Your brother’s best friend might be an amazing criminal lawyer, but that’s not too helpful when you have a parenting dispute with your former spouse.

Start with a phone call

You can learn a lot just from that first call. How long does it take for the lawyer to call you back? How does the lawyer treat you on the phone? Use this opportunity to ask about fees. You might discover immediately that their price is too high for you. If you decide you do want to meet them, find out if they charge for an initial meeting. Most lawyers do charge for a first consultation.

Interview before you hire.

Set up appointments with the lawyers who sound right. Look at this as a job interview – where you are the employer. How are you treated during the interview? Is the lawyer answering calls or checking emails? Is he slandering other lawyers, or worse, other clients? Do you feel you can confide in this person? Sometimes a first read is not correct, but sometimes it’s good to go with your gut feeling. You know what works for you.

Consulting with other experts. 

Family law requires knowledge in other fields, such as business, wills, estates, etc. Does the lawyer have other professionals to consult with? You want your lawyer to give you a full picture of the situation and the possible outcomes. Broader knowledge may be required.

When you choose, get it in writing. 

An agreement should include what the lawyer’s work will include and his or her fees. Does he work hourly or by the case? What about additional fees or changes in circumstances? Emergencies?

Should I meet with a lawyer before agreeing to mediation, arbitration, or other dispute resolution?

Many people consider mediation or other dispute resolution processes as a way to resolve family law matters without going to Court.

While reaching an agreement outside the courtroom can often be a positive outcome, it is important to understand your legal rights and options before making decisions that may affect your future.

Why Obtain Legal Advice Before Dispute Resolution?

Before participating in mediation, Family Dispute Resolution (FDR), arbitration or settlement negotiations, you should consider obtaining advice from an experienced family lawyer.

A lawyer can help you:

• understand your legal rights and responsibilities;
• identify the important issues in dispute;
• assess the strengths and weaknesses of your position;
• understand the likely outcome if the matter proceeded to Court;
• determine whether mediation or another dispute resolution process is appropriate; and
• prepare a negotiation strategy that protects your interests.

Having a clear understanding of your legal position can help you participate in dispute resolution confidently and make informed decisions.

Do I Need a Lawyer at Mediation?

Whether you have a lawyer attend mediation with you depends on your circumstances.

In some matters, clients benefit from having a lawyer present to:

• provide legal advice during negotiations;
• assist with evaluating proposed outcomes;
• help ensure any agreement reached properly protects their interests; and
• assist with documenting the outcome.

In other situations, clients may choose a more limited form of legal assistance, such as obtaining advice before mediation or having documents reviewed.

At Mathews Family Law & Mediation Specialists, we offer flexible options including full representation and unbundled family law services, allowing clients to access the level of legal support that best suits their needs.

Is Dispute Resolution Always Appropriate?

While dispute resolution is encouraged in many family law matters, it is not suitable for every situation.

An experienced family lawyer can advise whether negotiation, mediation, Family Dispute Resolution, arbitration or Court proceedings are the most appropriate pathway in your circumstances.

Factors that may affect the suitability of dispute resolution include:

• family violence or safety concerns;
• significant power imbalances between parties;
• urgency;
• complexity of financial matters; or
• the willingness of each person to negotiate constructively.

Family Law Mediation and Dispute Resolution Specialists Melbourne

Mathews Family Law & Mediation Specialists assists clients throughout Australia with negotiation, mediation, Family Dispute Resolution and complex family law matters.

Our Accredited Family Law Specialists and Mediators combine specialist legal knowledge with dispute resolution expertise to help clients work towards practical and sustainable outcomes.

Contact our team to arrange a consultation about your family law matter.

About Vanessa Mathews — Accredited Family Law Specialist

This page was prepared and reviewed by Vanessa Mathews, Principal of Mathews Family Law & Mediation Specialists. Vanessa is an Accredited Family Law Specialist, Accredited Family Dispute Resolution Practitioner (FDRP) and Mediator who practises exclusively in family law. She assists clients throughout Australia with separation, divorce, parenting disputes, property settlements, financial agreements and other complex family law matters.

Helping families resolve conflict through specialist legal expertise and constructive dispute resolution.

Last reviewed: 24 July 2026

Disclaimer: This page provides general information only and does not constitute legal advice. Every family law matter is different and you should obtain advice tailored to your circumstances.

Experienced Family Lawyers Melbourne — Specialist Advice and Practical Solutions

At Mathews Family Law & Mediation Specialists, we understand that family law issues are often some of the most challenging experiences a person can face.

Our Accredited Family Law Specialists assist clients with complex parenting disputes, property settlements, financial agreements and other family law matters. We also provide specialist mediation and Family Dispute Resolution services designed to help families resolve disputes wherever possible without unnecessary Court proceedings.

We believe every family law matter requires a personalised approach. The first step in every matter is taking the time to understand our client’s circumstances, concerns and objectives. By understanding what matters most to you, we can provide strategic advice and develop a legal approach tailored to your individual situation.

Specialist Family Law Advice with a Resolution-Focused Approach

Our team has extensive experience across all areas of family law, including:

• separation and divorce;
• parenting arrangements and complex parenting disputes;
• property and financial settlements;
• Binding Financial Agreements;
• mediation and Family Dispute Resolution; and
• complex financial matters involving businesses, trusts and superannuation.

We recognise that family law is not only about legal issues — it is also about helping people navigate significant personal and financial change.

Our approach combines specialist legal expertise with practical problem-solving, negotiation skills and a commitment to achieving outcomes that protect our clients’ long-term interests.

Why Choose Mathews Family Law & Mediation Specialists?

Clients choose MFL because they value:

✔ Accredited Family Law Specialist expertise
✔ Experienced family law mediators and Family Dispute Resolution Practitioners
✔ Personalised advice tailored to individual circumstances
✔ Strong negotiation and dispute resolution skills
✔ Flexible service options, including full-service and unbundled legal assistance
✔ Clear communication and practical guidance throughout the process

With experience across a broad range of family law matters, our team understands the complexities that can arise and provides advice designed to help clients make informed decisions about their future.

Contact Mathews Family Law & Mediation Specialists to arrange a consultation with an experienced family lawyer.

Child Custody Lawyers in Melbourne

Parenting Lawyers and Family Dispute Resolution Specialists

At Mathews Family Law & Mediation Specialists, we understand that parenting disputes are often the most emotionally challenging aspect of separation and divorce.

For many parents, decisions about where children live, how much time they spend with each parent and how important decisions are made can feel overwhelming.

Our Accredited Family Law Specialists provide compassionate, practical and strategic advice to help parents resolve parenting matters while keeping the best interests of children at the centre of every decision.

Although many people refer to these issues as “child custody” matters, Australian family law now uses terms such as:

• Parenting arrangements
• Parenting orders
• Parental responsibility
• Time spent with parents

Our experienced parenting lawyers assist clients throughout Melbourne, Victoria, Australia and overseas with complex and sensitive parenting disputes.

Child Custody and Parenting Law in Australia

Australian family law recognises that children benefit from arrangements that support their safety, wellbeing and ongoing relationships with important people in their lives, where appropriate.

When parents separate, they may need to reach agreement about matters including:

• Where children live
• The time children spend with each parent
• School holiday arrangements
• Communication between children and parents
• Education and healthcare decisions
• Travel arrangements
• Relocation issues
• Other significant parenting decisions

Every family is different. There is no automatic preference for mothers or fathers. The focus is always on what arrangements best support the individual child or children involved.

Parenting Agreements and Dispute Resolution

Many parenting disputes can be resolved without going to Court.

At Mathews Family Law & Mediation Specialists, we encourage practical and child-focused solutions wherever possible through:

• Negotiation
• Lawyer-assisted discussions
• Family Dispute Resolution (FDR)
• Mediation
• Parenting plans
• Consent Orders

Our family law mediators and Family Dispute Resolution Practitioners help parents communicate effectively, understand their options and work towards workable parenting arrangements.

Parenting Orders and Court Proceedings

If parents cannot reach agreement, an application may be made to the Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia for parenting orders.

Parenting orders can address issues including:

• Living arrangements
• Time spent with each parent
• Parental responsibility
• Communication arrangements
• Specific issues affecting a child’s welfare

Court proceedings can be complex and emotionally demanding. Our experienced parenting lawyers provide strategic advice and representation to protect your interests while maintaining a focus on your children’s needs.

Experienced Parenting Lawyers Melbourne

At Mathews Family Law & Mediation Specialists, we understand that parenting disputes require more than legal knowledge.

They require:

✔ Understanding of family dynamics
✔ Strong negotiation skills
✔ Practical problem-solving
✔ Sensitivity to the emotional impact of separation
✔ A focus on achieving sustainable outcomes

Our Accredited Family Law Specialists assist parents with:

• Parenting negotiations
• Child custody disputes
• Parenting plans
• Parenting orders
• Family Dispute Resolution
• Mediation
• Relocation disputes
• International parenting matters
• Complex parenting proceedings

Why Choose Mathews Family Law & Mediation Specialists?

Clients choose MFL because we provide:

✔ Accredited Family Law Specialist expertise
✔ Experienced family law mediators
✔ Resolution-focused strategies
✔ Personalised advice tailored to your circumstances
✔ Flexible service options including unbundled legal services
✔ Support throughout Australia and overseas

Our aim is to help families resolve parenting issues in a way that minimises conflict and supports children through the transition.

Contact Our Child Custody and Parenting Lawyers Melbourne

If you need advice about child custody, parenting arrangements, parental responsibility or parenting disputes, our experienced team can help.

Contact Mathews Family Law & Mediation Specialists today to arrange your complimentary initial telephone consultation with an Accredited Family Law Specialist.

We will listen to your circumstances, explain your options and help you take the next step with confidence.

About Vanessa Mathews — Accredited Family Law Specialist

Vanessa Mathews
Principal | Accredited Family Law Specialist | Accredited Family Dispute Resolution Practitioner | Mediator

This page was prepared and reviewed by Vanessa Mathews, Principal of Mathews Family Law & Mediation Specialists. Vanessa practises exclusively in family law and assists clients throughout Australia with separation, divorce, parenting disputes, property settlements, financial agreements and other complex family law matters.

Helping families resolve conflict through specialist legal expertise and constructive dispute resolution.

Last reviewed: 24 July 2026

Disclaimer: This page provides general information only and does not constitute legal advice. Every family law matter is different and you should obtain advice tailored to your circumstances.

Experienced Family Lawyers Melbourne Eastern Suburbs

Specialist Family Law Advice Tailored to Your Circumstances

At Mathews Family Law & Mediation Specialists, we understand that family law matters are often some of the most challenging experiences individuals and families face.

Whether you are considering separation, navigating divorce, resolving a property settlement, making parenting arrangements or seeking advice about financial agreements, our Accredited Family Law Specialists provide clear, strategic and compassionate legal advice tailored to your individual circumstances.

Family law is our focus. We take the time to understand your concerns, explain your options and develop a practical legal strategy designed to help you achieve the best possible outcome.

Comprehensive Family Law Services

Our experienced Melbourne family lawyers assist clients with all aspects of family law, including:

• Divorce and separation
• Property settlements and financial agreements
• Parenting arrangements and parenting disputes
• Child support matters
• Spousal maintenance
• Binding Financial Agreements
• Family Dispute Resolution and mediation
• Complex financial matters involving businesses, trusts and superannuation
• Family law negotiations and Court representation

Every family law matter is different. Our approach is never one-size-fits-all. We provide advice that is specifically tailored to your circumstances, priorities and goals.

Compassionate Advice During Difficult Times

We understand that separation and family disputes involve more than legal issues. They can affect your finances, relationships, children and future plans.

Our team approaches every matter with professionalism, understanding and empathy. We believe that strong legal advice should be combined with practical guidance and support, helping you make informed decisions during an uncertain time.

From your first consultation, we focus on understanding:

• What matters most to you
• Your immediate concerns and long-term goals
• The options available to resolve your matter
• The most effective and cost-conscious pathway forward

Negotiation, Mediation and Dispute Resolution Specialists

At Mathews Family Law & Mediation Specialists, we are committed to resolving disputes efficiently wherever possible.

Many family law matters can be successfully resolved through:

• Negotiation
• Mediation
• Family Dispute Resolution
• Collaborative approaches

Our dispute resolution experience allows us to help clients avoid unnecessary conflict, delay and legal costs where appropriate.

Where Court proceedings are required, our experienced family lawyers provide strong and strategic representation to protect your interests.

Trusted Family Lawyers in Melbourne’s Eastern Suburbs

Located in Melbourne’s Eastern suburbs, Mathews Family Law & Mediation Specialists assists clients throughout Melbourne, Victoria, interstate and overseas through modern technology and flexible appointment options.

Our reputation has been built on:

✔ Accredited Family Law Specialist expertise

✔ Personalised and responsive service

✔ Strong negotiation skills

✔ Practical, solution-focused advice

✔ Extensive experience in complex family law matters

✔ A commitment to achieving the best possible outcomes for our clients

Why Choose an Accredited Family Law Specialist?

Family law is complex and constantly evolving. Choosing an Accredited Family Law Specialist means choosing a lawyer who has demonstrated advanced knowledge, experience and expertise in this specialised area of law.

Our team understands the legal, financial and emotional complexities involved in separation and family disputes and provides advice designed to protect your interests and your future.

Book Your Free Initial Consultation

If you need experienced family law advice in Melbourne’s Eastern suburbs, our team is here to help.

Contact Mathews Family Law & Mediation Specialists today to arrange your free initial telephone consultation with an Accredited Family Law Specialist.

We will listen to your circumstances, explain your options and help you take the next step with confidence.

Call 1300 635 529 or contact us online to speak with our experienced family law team.

Why Clients Choose Us

• ✔ Accredited Family Law Specialists
• ✔ Recognised by Doyle’s Guide as a Leading Family Law Firm
• ✔ Free 15-Minute Initial Telephone Consultation
• ✔ Fixed Fees Available for Many Services
• ✔ Mediation, Negotiation & Court Representation
• ✔ Online Appointments Across Australia & Overseas
• ✔ Personalised, Compassionate Advice
• ✔ Trusted by Hundreds of Clients

Why Choose Mathews Family Law & Mediation Specialists?

Do You Need an Accredited Family Law Specialist?

When you’re facing separation, divorce, parenting disputes or a property settlement, the lawyer you choose can make a significant difference to the outcome of your matter.

At Mathews Family Law & Mediation Specialists, family law is not just one of the areas we practise—it is our exclusive focus. Our firm is dedicated to helping individuals and families resolve family law disputes with practical advice, strategic guidance and compassionate support.

Why Choose Us?

Accredited Family Law Specialists

Our team includes Accredited Family Law Specialists, a qualification awarded by the Law Institute of Victoria to lawyers who have demonstrated advanced knowledge, substantial experience and specialist expertise in family law.

Choosing an Accredited Family Law Specialist means choosing a lawyer whose expertise has been independently recognised and who is committed to maintaining the highest professional standards.

Recognised Leaders in Family Law

Mathews Family Law & Mediation Specialists is regularly recognised by Doyle’s Guide as a Leading Family Law Firm, and our Principal, Vanessa Mathews, has been recognised as a Leading Victorian Family Lawyer.

These independent rankings reflect our reputation within the legal profession for technical excellence, outstanding client service and consistently achieving positive outcomes.

A Resolution-Focused Approach

We understand that family law disputes can be emotionally and financially challenging.

Our priority is to help clients resolve matters:

• Promptly
• Cost-effectively
• With as little conflict as possible
• Without unnecessary Court proceedings wherever appropriate

Many matters can be successfully resolved through negotiation, mediation or family dispute resolution, saving clients significant time, stress and legal costs.

When litigation is necessary, our experienced lawyers provide strong and effective representation throughout the Court process.

Comprehensive Family Law Services

We are one of the few Melbourne family law firms offering a comprehensive range of dispute resolution services, including:

• Legal advice and strategic planning
• Lawyer-assisted negotiation
• Mediation and family dispute resolution
• Litigation and Court representation
• Unbundled legal services for clients who only require assistance with specific aspects of their matter
• Full-service legal representation from start to finish

This flexibility allows clients to choose the level of legal support that best suits their circumstances and budget.

Transparent Fees

We understand that legal costs are an important consideration.

Where appropriate, we offer fixed-fee services, providing greater certainty and allowing clients to make informed decisions about their legal representation.

Accessible Wherever You Are

Whether you are located in Melbourne, regional Victoria, interstate or overseas, our firm uses secure video conferencing and modern technology to provide convenient access to experienced family law advice wherever you are.

A Reputation Built on Results

Our greatest endorsement comes from the clients we have helped.

We are proud of the many testimonials we have received recognising our professionalism, responsiveness, compassion and commitment to achieving the best possible outcome for every client.

Why Specialist Family Law Advice Matters

Family law is a highly specialised and constantly evolving area of law.

Choosing an Accredited Family Law Specialist means choosing a lawyer with recognised expertise in matters including:

• Divorce
• Parenting arrangements
• Property settlements
• Spousal maintenance
• Child support
• Financial agreements
• De facto relationship disputes
• Family dispute resolution
• Complex financial matters involving businesses, trusts and superannuation

Early advice from a specialist can help protect your legal rights, identify opportunities for early resolution and avoid costly mistakes.

Speak with an Accredited Family Law Specialist

If you need trusted family law advice, we’re here to help.

Contact Mathews Family Law & Mediation Specialists today to arrange your complimentary 15-minute telephone consultation with one of our Accredited Family Law Specialists.

We’ll listen to your concerns, explain your legal options and help you take the next step with confidence.

Call 1300 635 529 or complete our online enquiry form to get started today.

About Vanessa Mathews — Accredited Family Law Specialist

Vanessa Mathews
Principal | Accredited Family Law Specialist | Accredited Family Dispute Resolution Practitioner | Mediator

This page was prepared and reviewed by Vanessa Mathews, Principal of Mathews Family Law & Mediation Specialists. Vanessa practises exclusively in family law and assists clients throughout Australia with separation, divorce, parenting disputes, property settlements, financial agreements and other complex family law matters.

Helping families resolve conflict through specialist legal expertise and constructive dispute resolution.

Last reviewed: 24 July 2026

Disclaimer: This page provides general information only and does not constitute legal advice. Every family law matter is different and you should obtain advice tailored to your circumstances.

What Does a Divorce Kit Contain?

The divorce kit provides all the information that an applicant needs to file for divorce in Australia. The divorce kit outlines the steps one needs to take to apply for a divorce. It also provides the application form to be filled in by the applicant. There is no standard format of the divorce kit as it is provided in a number of different formats. The applicant can choose the one that best suits their needs after consultation with a divorce lawyer.

The divorce kit also provides an online version of the application form that needs to be printed out after it has been filled in by the applicant and then submitted to the Federal Magistrates Court. The Federal Magistrates Court Rules provide that the application form be printed on one side of the sheet only. The kit also specifies the fees that the applicant needs to pay at the time they submit the application form with the Federal Magistrates Court. The kit also specifies the instances where the applicant may be entitled to a reduction in the divorce fee. The law allows for the payment to be made in cash as well as via cheques, money orders and credit card.

In addition to the above, the divorce kit also contains information about the process to be followed during court hearings and how the outcome of the application is being determined. Applicants can use the application form to fill in details of up to four children. Applicants who have more than four children can use the special attachment form that comes with the divorce kit. Finally, the online application form can also be submitted electronically through the portal of the Commonwealth Courts. The divorce kit is an indispensable tool for divorce applicants and may be the best source of information on how to get a divorce in Australia.

The divorce process demystified

Transcript

Hi, I’m Vanessa Mathews from Mathews Family Law & Mediation Specialists. Today I want to discuss a number of issues related to divorce.

I want to stress that these issues are best handled by a lawyer. I would encourage you to talk with a lawyer and to read more about these issues on our website before you take any steps on your own.

Divorce, according to Australian law, is the end of a legal marriage. That is, it’s a change in status for those in the couple. From a legal angle, it only involves those two people, not their children, not their property or the financial obligations they might have.

While all of those factors are affected by divorce, divorce itself is a fairly straightforward matter in Australia. Also, at least for now in Australia, legal divorce can only happen between a man and a woman. That’s because marriage in Australia is only legally recognised between a man and a woman.

Other couples, like same sex couples or couples who had been living together for a long time but chose not to get married, may be recognised as what’s called de facto couples. They may have many of the same rights as a married couple. But, if they choose to end their relationship they do not have to go through the process of divorce.

Divorce in Australia is no fault. This means that there doesn’t have to be a reason given for the divorce. If even one person wants to end the marriage, to get a divorce they have the legal right to end it.

There are, however, a number of conditions that need to be met before a couple can get divorced. You must be separated from each other for at least 12 months and 1 day. The court may even ask for proof that you were separated for this period of time before granting the divorce.

While generally separation means living apart from one another there are cases where a couple is considered separated even though they live in the same home. But, in this case the burden of proof is even greater, and there are a number of conditions that must be met.

So, if you are separated but living together in the same house, make sure you meet those other requirements. They include not having sexual relations, living in separate rooms, not attending social functions together, and not providing household services to each other like cooking and laundry. This shows the court that you really have ended your relationship. You can read more about this on our website.

Once you’re separated for a year and one day you can fill out an application for divorce. The application mostly asks about personal details like name, addresses, details about children, and the marriage and separation date. But, it also asks if there are other outstanding family issues in the court like property division, and this information needs to be listed.

The application must be signed in front of a lawyer, or justice of the peace, or someone else who can witness a document. Then, it’s filed with the court along with two copies and a copy of your marriage certificate. There is also a fee that you’ll need to pay when you file the application.

If you both wanted the divorce and both filled out the application then you’ll each get a copy from the court and wait for a hearing date. If only you filed the application then you have to serve the application on your spouse which means that your spouse has to get a copy of the application. Generally, a spouse is served by sending by registered mail. Your spouse can receive the application personally by hand, but you may not bring it to him or her. Someone else over the age of 18 has to serve him or her by hand.

Now, again, Australia has no fault divorce, so if one person wants the divorce there isn’t much the other spouse can do to prevent it. But, once the other spouse has the application he or she can fight the divorce by filing what’s called a response to divorce and claiming there wasn’t a separation of 12 months and 1 day or by arguing that the particular court doesn’t have the right to hear this case. Then, the case will have to be heard by the court.

But, assuming the other partner doesn’t fight the application, you will have a hearing at the court to just verify the facts of the case. The law doesn’t require everyone to attend the hearing, but you do have to go to court if you have children under 18 and only one of you apply for the divorce. If you filed a response to divorce you should probably go to the court since the judge will want to hear from you.

Now, I want to talk a bit about what happens in court. This is often scary for people, partly because just the idea of being in court is frightening and also because of the emotional side of divorce. But, it’s just a formal procedure where the judge or the registrar reviews the application. He checks that everything written is correct. The judge might ask you or your spouse some questions, too. If you have children, the judge will also want to know that everything is arranged for them, things like where they’ll live and how they’ll be supported.

Once everything is clear to the court they’ll announce that the divorce is complete and the marriage has ended. You’ll get a divorce order from the court through the mail, and this is proof of the divorce. The divorce is actually final only one month and one day from the date of the hearing. Only at that point, one month and one day, can you remarry.

You can find the application for divorce on the Internet, but we recommend you speak to a lawyer to be sure you haven’t missed out anything and to make sure you know all of your rights. You may also like to visit our online divorce service, onlinedivorce.com.au.

Thank you for watching this video. I’m Vanessa Mathews from Mathews Family Law & Mediation Specialists.

Tax Implications and Divorce

This article is designed to address the tax consequences of certain divorce-related actions, such as spousal maintenance and property division. This area is very complex and nuanced, and while we will provide a broad framework for the tax implications related to divorce, should you need specific information or have questions about your situation, please consult your lawyer or a tax specialist. In fact, we advise that you consult a tax adviser even in straightforward cases, just so you will not experience any unexpected tax consequences.

Maintenance Exemption and Deduction

Maintenance payments are exempt from the receiver’s income tax if the payments are made to a person who is or has been a spouse of the one paying maintenance, to or for the benefit of a child of the payer, or to or for the benefit of a child of the other party to the marriage. This exemption extends to maintenance received by a de-facto spouse, as well. The general rule is that there is no tax assessed on maintenance received.

The exemption will only apply to payments attributable to the maintenance payer – and not in situations where the payer makes the payments to divest himself or herself of an income-producing asset or to divert ordinary income that would otherwise be taxable. Essentially, the exemption will not apply if the payer is not acting improperly.

With regard to deductions, the maintenance payer may not deduct maintenance payments from his salary or wages; spousal maintenance may not be claimed as a tax deduction.

Property Division

The tax that is sure to rear its head in the property division area is the capital gains tax. Capital gains taxes are triggered upon the happening of a capital gain event, which can be a gain or a loss of assets. There are more than 50 events enumerated in the Income Tax Assessment Act (ITAA), and they range from the disposal of a capital gains tax asset to the grant of an option or lease.

Certain assets and transactions are exempt from the capital gains tax, including vehicles (that carry less than 1 ton and hold less than nine passengers), trading stock, and the disposal of a life insurance policy by the original beneficial owner of the policy. The right to payment from a superannuation fund or other approved deposit fund is also excluded from capital gains tax.

Capital gains and losses related to the dissolution of a marriage or de facto relationship are exempt from capital gains tax.

The law also provides for certain roll-over relief for transfers between spouses. For instance, if your former spouse transfers an asset with capital gains tax attributes, the roll-over relief allows you to take it as the transferor had it (with the same capital gains tax attributes). Additionally, if an asset was a personal use asset to the transferor, it will be considered a personal use asset to the transferee as well, and special rules apply to calculating capital gains for these assets.

There are specially carved out rules with regard to dwellings and capital gains taxes. Particularly if the main residence is used for business purposes as well – in this case, a special exemption to capital gains tax will apply.

Superannuation, specifically the splitting of superannuation, carries its own tax implications. For instance, if one surrenders their rights to payment out of this type of fund, the capital gains tax provisions will not apply. Additionally, when dealing with splitting certain tax concessions like roll-over relief can apply. Moreover, certain public sector funds will even have untaxed elements or other schemes not subject to tax.

With the lengthy list of exemptions and complexity of capital gains tax law, sometimes it is necessary to make decisions as to how you and your spouse plan to treat certain capital gains tax assets. For instance, you will have to decide which dwelling will be considered the main residence, or you may choose to nominate multiple dwellings as the main residence. These choices you make will certainly have tax implications and thus should be decided prior to any transfer. Typically parties agree to these choices by signing a statement prior to transferring the property but bear in mind that once a choice has been made, it is binding and cannot be changed or altered later.

Legal costs can also result in tax implications. They are considered in part of a capital gains calculation as incidental costs related to the disposal or acquisition of a capital gains asset. These costs should be considered separately from the asset and should be treated differently. Additionally, money spent on legal or tax advice might be deductible under the ITAA.

Property Orders

The court is given broad discretion with regard to property orders and has the power to alter property interests as it sees fit. However, the court is to consider the implications of capital gains taxes that will arise if a party is forced to dispose of property by order of the court.

Certain exemptions and concessions under capital gain tax law may be available if a property order causes a capital gains tax event to occur. For instance, an order requiring the transfer of property may trigger the marriage breakdown roll-over relief provisions.

As you can imagine the tax implications that can arise through divorce are boundless. The law is very complex; this article is merely intended to give you an idea of the implications and consequences so you may be prepared to address these issues with regard to your specific situation.

Child Custody – The Details

By its very nature, separation and divorce is difficult, emotionally draining, and have a major impact on your life. However, if you have children, this emotional toll is only amplified. Your children may experience a lot of pain as you and your spouse or partner separate and they adjust to a new lifestyle of splitting their time with you and sleeping in two different homes. Because divorce is so hard for children to cope with, the Australian legislature has placed an emphasis on shared parenting and ensuring that both parents continue to play an active role in the lives of their children after separation.

2006 Changes

The largest contributor to this concept of shared parental responsibility came in 2006 in the form of an amendment to the Family Law Act 1975. When passed, this amendment brought about the most significant change to family law in more than thirty years. The main objective of the amendment was to both support and promote the practice of shared parenting and urge parents to reach an agreement with regard to parenting arrangements on their own, without the interference of the courts.

An explanatory memorandum that accompanied the amendment further expressed that the changes were intended to “represent a generational change in family law and aim to bring about a cultural shift in how family separation is managed: away from litigation and towards co-operative parenting.” Through this amendment, Australia took a significant step towards making divorce easier on children.

Not only did the amendment express a desire for parents to reach an agreement on their own, but it also stressed the importance of both parents continuing to take an active role in the parenting of the child. The amendment expresses a desire for parents to jointly share duties and responsibilities, and also for children to be cared for and spend time with both parents.

While this article is designed to give you an in-depth look at how parenting arrangements work, through litigation or otherwise, bear in mind that often the most ideal way to settle a difference is to reach an agreement without involving the court. Children benefit from having both parents involved in their lives, so the best thing you can do for your child is to reach an agreement where each parent has meaningful involvement, and refrain from having your parenting issues heard in court.

Shared Parental Responsibility

The term “parental responsibility” is defined in the Family Law Act as: “all the duties, powers, responsibilities and authority which, by law, parents have in relation to children.” This has been understood to mean that parental responsibility encompasses living arrangements, medical treatment, education, religious upbringing, protection from harm, and the responsibility to keep the child safe among other things.

You may be wondering, what exactly did the legislature mean when it expressed a preference for shared parental responsibility? Does that mean the child should spend equal time with each parent? Should each parent spend equal money on the child? Should each be allowed to make decisions about the child’s religion, schooling, and extra-curricular activities? Generally speaking, the answer is yes.

Australia’s preference for shared parental responsibility means that both parents should have involvement in the child’s life, make decisions with regard to the child’s upbringing, and contribute to the general welfare and needs of the child. The courts will not allocate or assign responsibilities unless disputes arise that the parents are unable to resolve. Furthermore, should a court order be silent with regard to parental responsibility, both parents are to retain the responsibility.

As you can see, Australia has a strong preference for parents to share in the upbringing of the child, despite separation or divorce, and the courts are reluctant to make decisions regarding specific parental responsibilities. The Amendment discussed above in fact created a rebuttable presumption that it is in the best interest of the child to have both parents share equally in their responsibility, care, and upbringing.

It should not come as a surprise that very rarely do the courts take action to limit the parental responsibility of a parent, it takes extreme circumstances affecting the welfare of the child for the court to intervene and do such. Specifically, the rebuttable presumption discussed above is only abandoned where there is a threat of abuse, violence, or if allowing the parent to have control over the child is contrary to the child’s best interests.

Equal Time

Sometimes the concept of shared parental responsibility can be difficult when it comes to how much time the child spends with each parent. Equal time is often harder to organize than equal responsibility with regard to general decision-making, education, and religion. Allowing each parent to have equal time can raise logistical issues, which the court has addressed.

While there is a rebuttable presumption that equal shared parental responsibility is in the best interest of the child, there is no presumption with regard to the amount of time each parent has with the child. Before the court will issue an order allowing for equal time to be shared by the parents, it must first determine that such an arrangement is in the child’s best interest and reasonably practical.

There are advantages and disadvantages to allowing your child to spend equal time with you and your former spouse or partner. Each child is different and will respond differently to a divorce, and should you need a court order determining custody, the court will consider both the child’s interests as well as whether splitting time equally is reasonably practical. When determining whether equal time is reasonably practical the court will consider the following factors:

• how far apart the parents live to form each other
• the parent’s current and future capacity to implement an arrangement for the child to spend equal time, or substantial and significant time, with each of the parents
• the parent’s current and future capacity to communicate with each other and resolve difficulties that might arise in implementing an arrangement of that kind
• the impact that an arrangement of that kind would have on the child
• such other matters as the court consider relevant

As you may have guessed, courts rarely grant parenting orders allowing for equal time. While the best interest of the child is paramount to the court’s decision, it also considers the practicability of the order, and more often than not equal time is not found to be reasonably practicable.

Day-to-Day Decisions

Generally speaking, the parent who has the child in their care is responsible for the day-to-day decisions – like what the child eats, wears, when the child goes to bed, and what activities the child does. These day-to-day decisions can be made unilaterally, without consulting the other parent. However, the big decisions, otherwise known as “major long-term issues” are to be decided by both parents. The Family Law Act has enumerated certain issues that fall into the major long-term category, they include but are not limited to: education, religion/cultural upbringing, health, name, and living arrangements.

What happens first?

We have discussed how Australia’s preference for shared parental responsibility and for settling matters without litigation, so you may be wondering how the process works, and what happens first? This article will discuss the non-litigious ways to reach an agreement before discussing how parenting litigation works.

Step one to reaching a parenting agreement is to participate in something called family dispute resolution (otherwise known as alternative dispute resolution). All courts require compliance with primary dispute resolution, and you must obtain a certificate from a family dispute resolution practitioner prior to filing for a parenting order. The purpose of required family dispute resolution is to encourage early and full disclosure of relevant information, and allow parties to engage in a process that not only avoids legal action but also minimizes cost.

While participating in family dispute resolution, the focus of the parties is to be upon the best interest of the child, and parties should be open to negotiation, arbitration, and counseling.

Unless you can show good reason for not having followed the family dispute resolution requirement, non-compliance can result in serious cost consequences. There are only several exceptions to this requirement that excuse you from having to file a certificate from a family dispute resolution practitioner. The major exception is where the court finds that there has been or is a risk of abuse or family violence of the child. While there are several other exceptions, keep in mind that should you fail to comply with this requirement, it could cost you.

Family Relationship Centers and Family Advice Line

As part of the push to get families to reach agreements with regard to parenting issues without resorting to litigation, the government introduced both Family Relationship Centers and a Family Relationship Advice Line. Both programs are government sanctioned and designed to encourage parties to resolve disputes and enter into parenting plans.

The purpose of the Family Relationship Centers (FRCs) is to allow parents to reach workable arrangements for their children with the help of FRC staff. The staff members are not only trained in how to give advice concerning disputes but also are trained in identifying issues of family violence and abuse. Furthermore, while the staff does not administer legal advice, it has the ability to place parties in communication with Legal Aid and private practitioners to obtain the legal advice they need.

The Family Advice Line is available from 8 am to 8 pm Monday through Friday, 10 am to 4 pm on Saturdays and can be reached at 1800 050 321. Not only is this service available to the parents, but also is available for grandparents, stepparents, children and friends.

The purpose of the Family Advice Line is to provide information about the family law system, separation, how to maintain relationships, and the impact of conflict on children among other things. This service is free, and may remain anonymous should you choose to keep your identity unknown.

Other Methods of Dispute Resolution

Mediation is another type of dispute resolution that doesn’t involve the courts. The benefits to choosing mediation are that it can be less expensive than litigation, your case can be heard sooner than it could in Family Court, and the parties have greater control over the process.

Collaborative law is another option for dispute resolution and allows for parties and lawyers to meet in four-way meetings. This allows the parties to stay directly involved in the communication and negotiations. A major distinction with collaborative law is that the parties and lawyers agree in advance not to go to court.

Parenting Orders

After you have attended mandatory family dispute resolution and come to an agreement, you may apply to the court for a parenting order. Any person concerned with the child’s welfare may submit an application for a parenting order however in most cases, it is a parent, the child, or a grandparent who is seeking such an order.

With regard to parenting orders, the emphasis is on the best interest of the child. The court considers this to be the “paramount principle.” The primary considerations viewed by the court are allowing the child to have a meaningful relationship with both parents and also to protect the child from violence, abuse, and/or neglect. The court will also give consideration to a myriad of other factors, including the events that have occurred since separation.

After considering all relevant factors, the court can issue a parenting order that discusses parental responsibility, with whom the child will live, how much time the child spends with each parent, and how much communication the child has with each parent.

If you would like to modify a parenting order after it has been issued, you should first seek the assistance of a lawyer. Only if you are still unable to reach an agreement should you apply to the court for further help. At this point, the court can order both parents to attend a parenting program, or it can consider varying the order.

Non-Compliance and Parenting Orders

You should avoid breaching a parenting order at all costs; the court takes breaches of its orders very seriously and you could even potentially face goal time upon breach.

Australia has adopted a three-stage approach designed to both educate parents as well as impose sanctions when noncompliance occurs. Stage one addresses educating the parents about the nature and effect of parenting orders. Stage two is invoked upon the first breach of a parenting order, and requires the breaching party to attend an approved parenting course. When there are subsequent breaches, stage three permits the court to impose serious sanctions such as fines or imprisonment.

Parenting Plan

A parenting plan is a written document discussing any agreements reached between parties with regard to matters affecting their children. They differ from parenting orders in that they do not require the court’s involvement; they are simply informal agreements reached by the parties.

A parenting plan should detail the responsibilities and rights of both parents and its aim should be to create an arrangement in the best interest of the child. A parenting plan should include a breakdown of time that each parent is to spend with the child, discuss where the child will spend holidays, payments for the child’s expenses, and any other aspect of the care, welfare or development of the child.

The court will refuse to grant a divorce order unless it is satisfied that proper parenting arrangements are in place, and if the parties are unable to provide a plan the court will do it for them.

While it is permissible (and usually recommended) that parents agree to a parenting plan on their own, should this not be an option in your situation then you can resort to the other methods of dispute resolution we have discussed.

It is possible to have both a valid parenting plan and a valid parenting order. Typically, this situation arises when the order discusses significant topics (such as where the child will live) while the parenting plan manages the more intricate issues (for instance, how the child should be disciplined).

A major distinction between a parenting plan and a parenting order is that a parenting plan is not enforceable; it cannot be registered by the court and parties in breach of a parenting plan are not subject to the same sanctions as parties breaching a parenting order. For further discussion addressing the differences between a parenting plan and a parenting order, please see our FAQ that tackles this issue.

Independent Children’s Lawyer

In some cases, it is necessary to appoint an independent child’s lawyer (ICL) to represent the child’s interest. Parties can request this, or the court may appoint an ICL on its own initiative. In determining whether this appointment is necessary the court will consider a myriad of factors, including but not limited to: allegations of child abuse, a conflict between parties, issues of cultural or religious differences, sexual preferences of the parties, mental illness, and the proposed separation of siblings.

The role of the ICL is not to be the child’s legal representative, but rather to act as an “honest broker” throughout the legal proceedings. An ICL is charged with the task of forming an independent view of the evidence and acting in the best interest of the child. The presence of an ICL should minimize the trauma to the child and facilitate an agreed resolution of matters in the best interest of the child.

Any information that a child shares with an ICL is deemed to be confidential unless the ICL considers disclosure to be in the best interest of the child.

What the Child Wants 

Undoubtedly a child will form an opinion about where they want to live and whom they want to live with throughout your separation and divorce. A frequent question that arises is whether the child’s wishes are considered when determining custody arrangements.

A child is not required to disclose their wishes, however the court is required to consider their views should they choose to express them. The court will balance the child’s view with their age and degree of maturity before determining how much credibility to give the child.

Court Proceedings

It is clear that the preference in Australia is for parties to reach agreements with regard to parenting and custody issues without involving the court. However, this is not ideal in every situation. Some separations and divorces are particularly contentious, some involve issues of violence, and other times the parties simply can’t reach an agreement using dispute resolution. Should that happen, there are certain rules in place to protect children if their parents end up litigating child-related issues

The court takes on several principle roles when it comes to child-related proceedings. First, during the proceedings, the court is to consider both the needs of the child and the impact that the proceedings may have on the child. Essentially, the court’s role is to minimize any trauma experienced by the child throughout the proceedings. The court is charged with actively directing, controlling and managing the conduct of the proceedings. Additionally, the court is to conduct proceedings in a manner that will protect the child from violence or abuse, promote cooperative child-focused parenting, and reduce delays, formality, and legal technicality.

Additionally, there are certain logistical things the court can do to help protect the child. For instance, the court is required to address as many irrelevant issues as possible on one occasion, which shortens the overall proceedings and lessens the impact on the child. Also, the court may schedule hearing dates close to each other so that the child will not be impacted by lengthy times between hearing dates. The court can also limit the number of witnesses used, and the technology used, and again, encourage the parties to use dispute resolution services.

Another question that often arises when parties must litigate matters concerns the evidence that may be shown. The most common types of evidence are as follows:

• application and affidavit of the parties
• expert affidavit
• oral evidence (testimony)
• testimony/reports from an independent children’s lawyer
• family consultant’s report

While litigation is certainly an option for parties dealing with custody issues, it is clear that the preference is for parents to reach an amicable agreement by way of a parenting agreement or a parenting order achieved through dispute resolution.

Superannuation in Property Division

When a couple separates or divorces, or a de facto relationship[i] ends, a property must be divided. The property includes all of the assets – houses, cars, jewelry, furniture – and all of the liabilities, like loans and mortgages.  Superannuation – the money individuals set aside to have when they retire – is now also included in those assets that need to be divided fairly between a couple, whether married, de facto heterosexual or de facto same sex.  In the past, superannuation was considered a financial resource, similar to salary or other income. Today, however, most couples weigh superannuation funds as if they are marital assets or property.

Part VIIIB of the Family Law Act, 1975 (FLA) covers issues dealing with superannuation and families. The law requires that the superannuation benefits due to one spouse or de facto partner must be divided with the other spouse or partner. But there are several difficulties with dividing superannuation. Firstly, if a couple divorces before retirement, the superannuation funds are not yet available. So while a couple may divide up their property at the age of 45, they may not see funds from superannuation for another 20 or 30 years.  Other problems…..

The law recognizes these problems and offers three ways a divorcing couple can divide superannuation interests.

1. “Split”.  The first method is to split the interest into two accounts or benefits. This can be done either by a payment split when the superannuation becomes due (say, at retirement) or through an interesting split, which means each partner receives a superannuation interest. With an interesting split, the partner receiving the new benefit can keep the money in the original account until it comes due, or open an entirely new account. Nobody receives an actual cash payment – the money remains in a superannuation fund.  Tax issues must be calculated before the payment or interest is split.
2. “Flag”.  The second approach to dividing superannuation is to flag the benefit for a later date. In this scenario, the couple marks the benefit and the trustee of the superannuation fund is not allowed to touch it until the “flag” is lifted, either by agreement of the parties or with a court order.  The couple can then decide what happens to the fund only later after the person who owns the superannuation account retires.
3. Leave it alone.  In this case, couples consider superannuation a financial resource. When dividing up their assets, superannuation is only included in the calculation as a source of income, not as an asset.

Splitting the Superannuation Now

Typically, divorcing couples split their superannuation. Most couples choose this approach because it enables them to know exactly how much money they are receiving and allows them to make a clean break, without having to return to financial issues ten, twenty or thirty years later.

There are several steps needed to split the superannuation:

Step 1:  Request information from the partner’s superannuation fund.  

 There are two forms that a spouse must submit to the trustee of the superannuation fund:

1. Form 6 Declaration, which proves to the trustee that you are entitled to see the information and
2. the Superannuation Information Request Form. These forms can be obtained online

You must be “eligible” to receive the information from the fund.  An eligible person is:

1. The member of the fund or
2. The spouse of the member of the fund or
3. If (1) or (2) died, the deceased person’s legal representative or
4. Someone who plans to enter into a superannuation agreement with the member

Step 2: Evaluating information from the superannuation fund.  

The law requires the fund to provide information to the member of the fund and his or her spouse. The fund may provide information regarding the value of the superannuation or information that helps the person requesting information determine the value of the fund. The trustee should also notify the requester whether or not the fund may be split.  Once this information is obtained, the numbers must be calculated using specific formulas, depending on the type of fund. An expert in family law or accounting can help determine the correct formula to use in order to obtain the correct amount of interest each party is entitled to from the superannuation.

Step 3:  Turn to the courts for an order.   

Couples may sign their own splitting agreement and take it directly to the trustee of the superannuation fund. Alternatively, couples can turn to the courts with their own financial agreement already signed. Finally, if a couple can’t agree, they may obtain a court order.

1. If both sides agree about the value of the fund and it’s division, they can submit an Application for Consent Orders, which includes their agreement regarding superannuation. This agreement is binding only if both parties signed it AND both received independent legal advice.  This is the case regarding all financial agreements between couples divorcing.
   

   De facto couples terminating their relationship may also submit a financial agreement regarding superannuation, but only if they were residents of New South Wales, Victoria, Queensland, South Australia, Tasmania, the Australian Capital Territory, the Northern Territory or Norfolk Island when the agreement was made.

2. If the parties cannot come to their own agreement, they may turn to the court for Orders.

In either case, the trustee of the fund must be notified that the court is being asked to give orders. This is to ensure that the request being made complies with the fund’s rules. Also, the trustee is entitled to attend the court hearing and oppose the orders.

Step 4: Send a copy of the agreement or court order to the superfund trustee. 

Once the court gives orders, the superannuation fund must be sent a sealed copy of the decision.

Step 5: Split the superannuation benefit. 

Generally, the superannuation benefit will be split into two funds, one for each partner. There may be administrative costs for splitting the fund.

Contact Mathews Family Law to speak with one of our specialist solicitors and family law property lawyers to discuss your superannuation split today. Call our office on 03 9804 7991 and book a consultation with a divorce and family law attorney.

[i] Laws on the splitting of superannuation do not apply to de facto couples from Western Australia.